You can make your spouse
I have met young ladies who have gotten the age of marriage, they are beautiful and they have what every man could be looking for. Of course they have a personal walk with our Lord and Master Jesus Christ. Why have they not settled down at the moment? Are there no man coming after them? Does it mean men are not seeing how beautiful these young ladies are?
Of course men are seeing them but the question is, are the men worth the expectations of these young ladies. Most of the men who come their way are men they never wanted to have anything to do with. Not because they have ever had any encounter in the time past, but looking at these men physically they can conclude that he is not worth to be my spouse and they are not willing to give them an audience.
There is a difference between what every woman wants in a man and what destiny has for you.
Some young ladies have disposed some men only for them to find out in the nearest future that these men are never the kind they thought them to be. There is a difference between what every woman wants in a man and what destiny has for you. I am not talking of those ladies who are still dragging their feet in having a relationship with God. I am talking of those who have genuine walk with our Lord and Master Jesus Christ.
There many young men who were once in the faith, but when they relocated to another city, the challenges of life so much dealt with them that they lost out of faith and they are now wandering about the street. They do show up in the gathering of the brethren once while. They are still trying to regain their path with Christ, following them combining everything at the same time including their job which have great capacity to elude them from been active as expected.
God is the Father that wants the very best for His children.
When you walk across someone as long as you have the Spirit of God in you, He will always direct you. It is for every believer to know when the Spirit of God directs him or her. You can meet someone who seem to you that he or she is not at the height spiritually as you expected does not mean he or she is never the right person for you. The Spirit of God in us bears witness with our spirit that we are the children of God. With the Spirit of God in any individual, he or she will be guided right.
One of the greatest challenges in this present time is that many are moved by what they see than what they believe. If you ever believe that you have the Spirit of God living in you, allow Him to perfect the Will of the Father in your life. Nothing in this life is as beautiful as having a genuine walk with God. God is the Father that wants the very best for His children. You can’t believe that in relationship that God does not want the best for you.
Yes, that a man of low level comes your way today does not mean that will be his level all through his life.
God has made the part of couples cross, yet they failed to recognise each other. The seriousness of the whole matter is that when she is convinced about this very man, she still brings in sentiment that disqualify the young man from her list. Yes, I can tell you categorically that many ladies looked at man who is well to do who will pull them out from the poverty zone and place her on the zone of wealth where everything can be possible. They never cared about the peace of mind and the fulfilment of destiny.
God will always grant our heart desires. God has the best of all humanity at heart. There is no one who sincerely asks God for help who will not receive it. The greatest challenge in our request to God is that we want God to answer our request in a particular way. Yes, that a man of low level comes your way today does not mean that will be his level all through his life. He may seem like nobody now, but for the fact he has a genuine relationship with God, he is hardworking and has a teachable spirit, he is good to go.
It might be that all that he ever needed is a friend who will help him find his path to a genuine relationship with God.
Once you see a man who has a teachable spirit, you have seen a man who is in the path to get to the enviable height in life. Every woman should seek for a man who has a teachable spirit and has a genuine heart for God. Money should not be the first priority as in welcoming a man to be one’s husband. Many lady failed to understand the concept that they can make their spouse by helping him stand on his feet. Yes, I am not advocating for ladies to give men money, but if that is what it warrants, help him out as friends without anything attached to it. It might be that all that he ever needed is a friend who will help him find his path to a genuine relationship with God.
Every lady will say that her first criteria for a man to be her husband is that he must be a God fearing man. That is nice to be optimistic about the person one will spend the rest of his of her life with. But still don’t forget you can be the vessel God can use to get that man back on track. You can be the instrument God can use to get her to Himself. People have backsliden because of the challenges they faced in time past, you can be the man or woman God can use to bring such person back on track.
Let the Spirit of the Lord God Almighty that lives in you guide you.
You might be looking at that person that he or she is not right for you looking at his or her present appearance but little did you know that God sees the end from the beginning. That very person you are despising may be the right person for you. Let the Spirit of the Lord God Almighty that lives in you guide you. I am sure if only you will yield on Him, He will guide you properly.
I once had such discussion with a young lady in my church some years back on this very topic ‘you can make your spouse’. That was on a sunday after service, we talked for a while, she was amazed that she is hearing this from a young man who is yet to marry. Yes, I told her everyone has a missing rib, but to be able to locate your missing rib, you need but the spiritual and the physical to be able to descern the person properly.
Life is more spiritual than the physical.
When you meet someone for the first time that you people share something in common, the spirit has a way it reacts. There are occasions when someone walks up to someone and starts asking, if they have met before. Life is more spiritual than the physical. There is something about the Spirit of God in a person. No matter where you find the person, the Spirit will prompt you to know there is something about that very person that you just need to help him or her. Everything becomes obvious in the nearer future.
Conclusion:
The spouse you are seeking for might not be at the level spiritually, mentally and physically, but you need to understand that people are undergoing process to become better. Check whoever that comes your way, if he or she has a teachable spirit. Anyone who has a teachable spirit has a great tendency to become better and become the best spouse. Take your time in this journey, let the Spirit of God guide you and you will become a happier person.
