The unfriendly friends
If you are not observant to some certain principles before going about that relationship, you are probably going to get hurt
“And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.” (Ephesians chapter 5 verses 11)
The reasons many have experienced heart break is never that they can’t avoid it before that happened to them, it is because they were so emotional in everything they do. When you are too emotional, it is wise to carefully examine the people you choose to mingle with. If you are not observant to some certain principles before going about that relationship, you are probably going to get hurt. You can be too emotional, but still don’t forget it is not everyone that cares.
It is better to be alone than experiencing the gathering of the wrong company. There are people who hang around you because of what they are benefitting. As long as you open your arm on that particular direction, they are satisfied being around you. Once the gate of flow from that particular direction closes, you will discover you are standing alone. You should be wise to identify why people are around you.
Don’t be deceived, many people who claim to be with you, their heart may actually be far from you
One of the vital criteria in choosing those to mingle with is to be able to identify those who believe in you. You need to know those who accept your personality and love you just the way you are. Not loving you because of what they are going to benefit from you. People wanting to be with you will flow from their heart. Don’t be deceived, many people who claim to be with you, their heart may actually be far from you.
If people do not accept who you are, they will find it difficult to accept your dream. When you walk up to them and start telling them about the beautiful dreams you have about doing exploit in life, some persons right before you will start making mockery of you. Some will be laughing as though you were telling the old animal kingdom story. They will make you feel as though you were suffering from an acute malaria that needed an urgent doctor’s attention.
If you are excepting the wrong people around you to just wake up one morning and decide to leave, you must be joking
You should be wise to know that the wrong companies can drain your dreams. When you are in the company of the history makers, it wouldn’t be long you will start making history. When you are in the company of the slothful, soon you will start acting as one. You don’t need the wrong people around. You all are not going in the same direction. Yes, you should know better that you guys are going in opposite direction.
It is amazing that wrong people do not always leave one voluntarily. If you are excepting the wrong people around you to just wake up one morning and decide to leave, you must be joking. They can’t leave that easily. Since they are not successful, they are in for an assignment to see you never succeed. Your success is always their nightmare, because they are with you but their heart is not with you.
Fake friends could be worse than a declared enemy.
The wrong company around you will never believe in your judgement. Whenever you have something you aim at, they will always have a reason to prove to you that you are not making any headway. You can’t receive the necessary support you ever thought at receiving from them. As long as they can’t believe your judgement, they can’t believe the process, and of course, there is no destination to that.
There is nothing as dangerous as treading through the path to fulfill destiny with the wrong company. There is nothing as worse as living in the same world where you are surrounded by fake friends. Fake friends could be worse than a declared enemy. They are like one’s friends, but all they are after is his or her downfall. They will make sure you end up a failure in all your endeavours. That is the greatest desire of their heart.
You better be alone passing through the tough challenges of life than going through life issues with people who will turn to become challenges themselves to you
Wrong company will dig a pit for your downfall when you will be assured they are constructing a road to fulfill your destiny. When you think you have people who will support you, wrong company is as good as you have no one supporting you. You better be alone passing through the tough challenges of life than going through life issues with people who will turn to become challenges themselves to you.
Life is too short to permit discouragers close to you. You don’t need people who will be a source of hindrance to you, you need people who will be a source of encouragement to you. May you not yield to the wrong advise of the wrong company. You should understand that whatever happens to you, you will be held accountable.
Conclusion:
You have to be cautious about those you are bringing close to yourself. They right people around you will elevate you and the wrong company around you can mar you.
