Be the wife
“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.” (Genesis chapter 1 verses 27)
No one was ever expected to remain in the same state, stuck and stagnated
Every female is born a woman but that is not the end of femininity. It is never wrong that a child is born a female. The only challenge on earth and an abuse to the human race is when a female declines knowledge and refuses to grow. To remain just a female is a crime to humanity and abuse of purpose and opportunity. No one was ever expected to remain in the same state, stuck and stagnated. Everyone one is meant to experience growth and development.
When a child is born, the family and relatives so much rejoice for there is an addition to the family irrespective of the sex. At that tender stage the child is fed with the breast milk. It will be insane for anyone to think that the child will be fed solid food at that moment. But it will become a concern that after six months that child is as though she was just put to bed. After the whole feeding, it does not add to her growth. Then there will be urgent need to visit a doctor for consultation.
Everything about any woman is beautiful but it is never so beautiful if she remains just a woman
For a child to strive for breast after three years is an abnormality and her mother will fight it in her own power. Nothing is as painful as when there is no growth and improvement. It pleases the mother when the child is refusing breast after months. That is the sign of growth that the child is becoming a girl by her improvement. That does not mean that she has fully grown. Her improvement is showing that in no distant time she will experience puberty stage. From there she keeps experiencing one stage or the other until adulthood.
Of course that child that is born a female is never an accident. She carries a solution to the world problem. She was designed and made to live to fulfill a specific course and that will prove her relevance. Everything about any woman is beautiful but it is never so beautiful if she remains just a woman. There should be a significance attached to her womanhood. To be significant calls for individual’s responsibility.
If you are a wife material, the attributes of a true wife will be seen in your life as you live each day.
When she gets to a particular level there are things which are not expected of her. At that moment everyone sees her as someone who is mature enough to take up some responsibility that will not ruin her reputation. At that moment she becomes a figure to her family and the society at large. The virtues that she lives to cultivate and the right moral. She builds herself because there is a path of relationship she will step into and she is eager to deliver well.
Relationship is not meant for those who are still thinkng they are mere female; relationship is not for them to believe they are woman and they are up to the age to engage into relationship. Relationship is meant for them who have developed in character and mentally, ready to accept the proposal of the genuine man. If you are not yet a well equipped, you should leave relationship alone. If you are a wife material, the attributes of a true wife will be seen in your life as you live each day.
Virtue smells and it smells good. It is a sweet savour that smells nice when a wife material walks around people. Every mother whose son is at the verge of getting married will go after her for her son. There is no hiding when a wife is ready. It is like a light that shines and brightens the whole place and gives meaning to life. That is why every man yearns for a wife. There are many women but a wife is a treasure every genuine man is seeking for.
There is a vacuum in a man’s life that is yearning for a wife
“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” (Genesis chapter 2 verses 24)
The bible is particular about this. God said, there is a time a man will leave his parents to cleave to his wife. May you be the wife who a man can cleave to. There is a vacuum in a man’s life that is yearning for a wife. May you be the wife who will fill that vacuum in the life of your man when you guys meet.
The greatest challenges in the phase of marriage is women who have not grown into true wife before the found themselves in marriage. That has been the catastrophe in marriage this day, women who have not yet developed the true virtues of a wife occupying the position of a wife. Learn the act of a true wife now that you are single before you dive into marriage.
Conclusion
You have to prepare for marriage before you get into it. One criteria for marriage is that you must be a wife. When a man leaves his father and mother, he is only permitted to cleave unto his wife. They can become one if he cleave unto his wife. In other word, they can’t become one if he does not cleave unto a wife. Be the wife!
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