YOU HAVE TO VALUE YOUR MARRIAGE

You have to value your marriage

You don’t have to think your marriage will work out any how

You need to come to the point of understanding that it is your marriage.  When a man cleaves to his wife, they became husband and wife. That is marriage between the husband and wife. It is never a marriage with someone else. The two parties involved should take it upon themselves never to allow anything of disturbance to come between their union to cause commotion.

The value one place in his or her marriage will determine how far they can go to guide it. You don’t need anyone to remind you that is your marriage and you must go the extra mile to get it succeed. You don’t have to think your marriage will work out anyhow. It is a deliberate act to put your marriage in the state of its blissful. What you do not value, you can’t place value on it.

The same man, who cannot take proper care of his wife, wants you to leave your husband so that he can take proper care of you.

You place value to your marriage. You must value and cherish your wife as a man, and you must value and cherish your husband as the wife. No one places much regard to something he or she does not value. You should realise you don’t have any other marriage except the one you are in now. Don’t allow anyone to deceive you by telling you, you have a better marriage outside the one you are in.

Many homes have been in disarray because many couples especially the ladies have been brainwashed that there is a better marriage for them out of their present marriage. The same man who is making you feel special, if you are  allow to be his wife, he will not manage you right. He is telling you your husband is not good enough to handle someone like you; little did you forget he has a wife at home who is drain of his attention. The same man who cannot take proper care of his wife, wants you to leave your husband so that he can take proper care of you.

When you see a man who throws the blame of whatever happens in his marriage to the wife, you have seen a man who does not place value in his marriage

You value your marriage by placing value on your spouse. Many men have placed so much value to their social club than they placed to their marriages. They pay so much attention to what is going on outside their home than they place attention to their marriages. Because many men have lost their bearing of responsibility in their marriages, that has caused much damages.

When you see a man who throws the blame of whatever happens in his marriage to the wife, you have seen a man who does not place value in his marriage. One of the way men show value in their marriages is when they take responsibility of their marriages. When things go wrong, you see the man ask, what is it have I done wrong? What is it I should have done right? When one takes full responsibility, it shows how much value he or she place in that marriage.

Put your best to make your marriage work and do not allow anyone to throw  in discord in your marriage

You can’t put your career ahead of your marriage. This is the little foxes that spoils the vine. Attention is highly need for the success of any marriage. When you don’t pay much attention to your marriage, you are paying much attention to something else. Where you pay much attention shows where you value is. If you place much value to your career and leave your marriage, if urgent precaution is not taken your marriage will experience chaos.

You have only one marriage and you have to cherish it jealously. Cherish your marriage with everything you have. Put your best to make your marriage work and do not allow anyone to throw  in discord in your marriage. Yes, there are those who will not be happy for the fact you so much value and cherish your marriage.  That is why you should be mindful of those you bring close to your marriage.

Everyone will go the extra mile to put things in order, knowing for well that both of them are part of the marriage

“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” (Genesis chapter 2 verses 24)

God said that a man and his wife will cleave together and they shall become one. When they are one, they should have the same motive towards their marriage. That is when both parties will put their best for the best and success of their marriage. No one will be expecting the other to do more than he or she can offer. Everyone will go the extra mile to put things in order, knowing for well that both of them are part of the marriage.

Conclusion

It is your marriage and it is in your responsibility to make it work. Guide your marriage to your own best for the success you ever desire. Placing value on your marriage will cause more success and happy mood.

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