The marriage advisers
It is never advisable to run to anyone to seek for marriage.
One of the calamities befalling marriages in recent time is the marriage advisers. People who have not advised themselves are now becoming advisers in people’s marriage. Why do you seek for someone’s advice in your marriage when you know that very person is inexperienced when it comes matters that concern marriage. It is not everyone who was made to be one’s adviser in marriage.
Every marriage has its own peculiar challenges that you have to seek for the right adviser who can actually give you the right counsel of what you need to stabilise your marriage and set it booming. You must come to the full understanding that you might not really need some person to advise you on how to run your marriage. It is never advisable to run to anyone to seek for marriage.
“There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” (Proverbs chapter 16 verses 25)
Whoever you made the adviser in your marriage is in control of your marriage destiny
That some persons have been going about their marriages, seeking from who to advise them and seeking opinion to where they should not have stepped in the first place, have caused much problems to their marriages than ever before. There is a path you are asked to trade through for the sake of your marriage adviser, but that path is likely be your doom. How do you know there is no future with advice is because your heart is never at peace with the whole process.
When you seek the right adviser, things are expected to start flowing right in your relationship. So it is when one encounters the wrong adviser, things start going worse than ever before. There is no mystery about who you made the marriage adviser in your marriage. Whoever you made the adviser in your marriage is in control of your marriage destiny. How far you will go in your marriage is tied to whoever you made your marriage adviser.
“Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.” (Galatians chapter 6 verses 7)
There are many advisers but that does not mean they are all genuine
It is in your power to take full charge of your marriage. Whoever you made your marriage adviser matters alot. You will reap the huge dividends of his or her advice. Whatever the outcome is after you must seek for advice, you should be ready to take full responsibility. The company of fools shall become foolish. The company of the wise shall become wiser.
“The way of the slothful man is as an hedge of thorns: but the way of the righteous is made plain.” (Proverbs chapter 15 verses 19)
Marriage adviser is never by age. I am never against marriage advisers. But I am an advocate of good advisers. There are many advisers but that does not mean they are all genuine. Anyone can be an adviser, but not everyone can give you good advice. Marriage advice should not be based on individual’s age, it should be based on an individual’s age of experience. Anyone who has not experienced the path of marriage, is never qualified to be a marriage adviser.
You should know that there are people who are never happy you are married.
I understand the fact that there are those who will advice you right, yet they are not married. That is never a criteria that anyone can advice right. You should know that there are people who are never happy you are married. Instead of seeing you enjoy your marriage, their wish for you is to never experience peace in your marriage. You don’t approach such people for advice and ever think you will receive the right advice for a successful marriage.
You should know those to run to for advice. It is better to be without an adviser than being with the wrong adviser. His or her advice will end in ruining your marriage if you did not take urgent precautions now. Stop accommodating those whose advice never made any significant impact in your marriage. Many are wolves in sheep clothing. They are more of marriage destroyers than they can lend help.
Conclusion
Do not play draft with your marriage. Whatever happens to your relationship, you will be held responsible. Whoever finds his or her way into your relationship, you are responsible for that. No one has the right and capacity to force him or herself into someone else marriage without the person consent. Whatever you can not tolerate in your relationship, never you open your arm to it in the first place.
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