6 points abuse of sex
1. Abuse steps in when the purpose of sex is ignored
Sex is a divine gift to the human race that was designed to be exercise and experience divinely. Sex is for the genuinely married husband and wife. Yes, God made them male and female. God never made them male and male or female and female. God made them male and female for the purpose of reproduction which sex is the pathway to accomplished such divine order. Any sex that takes place between male and male or between female and female is an abused of sex. Such sex cannot fulfill its purpose. It does not matter how they try to justify the means. Sex out side marriage between husband and wife is an abuse of sex.
Sex between male and male or female and female is out of the divine context. As long as it is outside the divine context, it is an abused to sex since that does not correspond to the divine purpose sex was introduced. Sex brings the unity of souls and oneness of flesh, that is why God designed it for husband and wife. Sex dwells so well on the principle that two shall become one.
“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24)
Sex outside its divine context is like someone playing with fire and thinking he or she will not get burned.
When the purpose of something is ignored, misuse and abuse becomes inevitable. Many people are gambling with what they don’t understand because they are so control by their flesh that they think they cannot help than going after exercising sex at all means. Ignorance is never an excuse when the repercussions stepped in.. It is wise for one to stay away from engaging in sex when he or she is not yet ready and mature for that. Sex is sacred to be misused.
Sex is covenant based. When one undergoes sex, the both parties become covenantal to each other even if they don’t understand it. That does not matter, what matters was that there was a flow from one party to the other. When one observed the path of covenant, both parties will experience to be one by transactions. Whatever the male man carries at the moment, will be transfer to the female man. Whatever the female male carries, will be transfer to the male man.
2. Emotional health is destroyed when there is the abuse of sex
Sex could be disastrous if practice out of the right context. Instead of people getting fulfill, they will be left empty and battered. Sex involves the two parties souls. It is a spiritual exercise that demands that it should be done on the rightful context. The soul is affected badly when sex is misused. The ability to bond is destroyed and insecurity increases as such relationship cannot hold much.
Sex has a greater ability to form soul-ties which can created lasting bond. When sex is misused, instead of resulting to the needful, it leads to pain, emotional disarray and disconnection. It leads to deep confusion, guilt and cause heartbreak. Sex abuse can distort one’s identity.
3. The spiritual sensitivity weakens when there is abuse of sex
Remember that sex is more of spiritual activity than the physical. You see, it is not just for singles that can experience sexual abuse, married people as husband and wife can experience sex abuse. When people leave the right opening that was designed for sex and start going through the opening that was not designed for sex, that becomes sex abuse, and it comes with great repercussions.
Those who engage in sex abuse easily lose their spiritual sensitivity and discernment. It causes their intimacy with God start growing sour. It causes closed heaven, opens doors for guilt and condemnation. There is need to know that sexual immorality affects both the body, the soul and the spirit. Anything that can affect the spirit can create spiritual conflicts which can disorganised the entire systems.
4. Divine marriage covenant breaks when there is abuse of sex
God designed sex to be a means of establishing covenant between husband and wife. It is also a factor to continue the renewal of such covenant. The original plan of sex is to unite husband and wife as one flesh. For two shall become one. Sex is sacred. It is too holy for one to take it casually. When the abuse of sex, it affects the covenant that established such union. It brings corruption and causes obscurity in marriag0e. Once the covenant based is tampered, spiritual oneness between husband and wife can be corrupt.
5. Exploitation in relationship breaks in when there is abuse of sex
There are times when people start seeing their partners as tools to fulfill their sexual urge, not because they have this love towards this person. The only time such person becomes relevant is when the other person feels he or she is in great urge towards the opposite gender. At this point, sex becomes transactional instead of relational. It is obvious that when sex is misused, people begin to use others for their selfish fulfillment. Here people become tools, instead of body, soul and spirit. Of course, when this happens, people start feeling that they are being manipulated. They feel worthless and lost of their reputation. Because of sexual abuse, some persons does not have value and regard for the opposite gender.
6. Damages in relationship steps in when there is abuse of sex
It takes so much truth to build trust, but a moment of sexual misused can put an end to that. Trust that took decades to build, can just vanish like a vapour in the air at an act of sexual abuse. Abuse of sex does no good but it can destroy everything. Some persons have actually ruined their wonderful relationship by the misused of sex. There are things you should not do in a relationship. That is why boundaries is very important to set.
People will always withdraw from the relationship they are facing abuse. It is madness for someone to be facing sexual abuse and still remain in such relationship. Once abuse of sex steps in, commitment will start fading away, loyalty will not find its ground any more and things start growing sour. What expectations can one be expecting in a soup that has gone sour.
In conclusion:
An abuse somewhere is an abuse everywhere. Because sex has what it takes to form soul-ties, if abuse it can turn things round for the worst. No one will ever want to face abuse of any kind in a relationship. Some marriage and relationship are growing sour because of past sexual abuse that had not been properly healed. Abuse of sex today can result to great catastrophe in the nearest future. One needs to avoid sexual abuse at all cost.
