5 steps to solid relationship
- Mutual Intimacy: In mutual intimacy, people come together; spend time together for a common responsibility that is not significant. You hang out with a friend, just because you enjoy his or her company. This can pave way to solid relationship.
- Mutual Respect: Respect is not forced, it’s earned. When you value your relationship with someone at the beginning, you earn respect on the process. That is the bed rock of solid relation. If you want to gain respect in your relationship with others as you go about your responsibility, you have to stand the pressure, heat, struggles; be willing to protect and preserve it. And as well treat them with patience and respect.
- Shared Mutual Experience: Going through the process of intimacy and respect can lead to mutual bond. You share word of wisdom, knowledge and of encouragement together. Friends still come together to build a relationship after departing for a long time, when they remember the good memory they shared together. People share experience when they work and walk together.
- Mutual Trust: Just like respect, you don’t force trust, you earn it. Mind you, it takes so much truth to build a trust, but a lie can destroy it. Trust is a bond that keeps relationship growing. Trust is a vital component in any relationship. You get to trust those close to you as you trade the path in fulfilling your responsibility.
- Mutual Reciprocity: There is no controversy, mutual exchange of rights, priviledges and obligations between the both parties is necessary. King Solomon said,
“Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” (Proverb chapter 27 verses 17.)
The life we are living is a life-time. We all pray to live long and fulfill our responsibilities to make our world a better world than we met it. Never mingle with people who will drag you in the wrong direction to accomplish your responsibility. I understand the important of investing in people, but on the course of impacting others, never you loss focus. One way or the other, your relationship will affect the fulfillment of your responsibililty.
Conclusion:
Don’t always be on the receiving side, be on the giving side also. Any relationship that is one-sided will not last long.
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